We all have moments when life feels overwhelming—when the clutter in our homes, our minds, or even our schedules starts to weigh us down. That’s where the SHED Method comes in. It’s not just about tidying up; it’s about making space for what truly matters.
Here’s how it works:
1. S= Separate (What Stays vs. What Goes)
Before you can make real progress, you’ve got to take stock. Separate the things that serve you from the things that don’t. This goes for physical clutter (like that pile of clothes you never wear), mental clutter (old grudges or unnecessary worries), and even digital clutter (those 5,000 unread emails).
Ask yourself:
- Does this add value to my life?
- Does it bring me joy or help me grow?
- Is it just taking up space?
Be honest. The goal isn’t to get rid of everything—just the things that no longer fit.
2. H = Heave the Trash (Let It Go!)
Once you’ve identified what doesn’t belong, it’s time to heave the trash. This is the hardest part because we’re wired to hold onto things—out of guilt, nostalgia, or fear of “what if I need it later?”
But here’s the truth: Clutter is procrastination in physical form. The more we hold onto what doesn’t serve us, the less room we have for what does. So:
- Donate, sell, or toss what you don’t need.
- Delete old files, unsubscribe from emails, and clear mental junk.
- Say no to obligations that drain you.
Letting go isn’t loss—it’s liberation.
3. E = Embrace Your Environment (Design Your Space for Success)
Now that you’ve cleared the clutter, embrace your environment. This means intentionally shaping your surroundings to support the life you want.
- Physically: Organize your space so it feels calm and inspiring.
- Mentally: Fill your mind with positive influences—books, podcasts, people who lift you up.
- Emotionally: Surround yourself with what fuels you, not what drains you.
Your environment shapes your habits, so make sure it’s working for you, not against you.
4. D = Drive Yourself Forward (Keep the Momentum Going)
Decluttering isn’t a one-time event—it’s a practice. To stay on track, drive yourself forward with small, consistent actions.
- Schedule regular “SHED sessions” (weekly or monthly).
- Reflect on what’s working and what’s not.
- Stay mindful of what you bring into your life.
When you make SHED a habit, you’ll find yourself lighter, more focused, and ready for what’s next.
Final Thought
Life’s too short to be buried under clutter, whether it’s stuff, stress, or stagnation. The SHED method isn’t about perfection; it’s about progress. So start small, stay consistent, and watch how much freer (and happier) you feel.
Now, what’s the first thing you’re going to SHED today?
Would like to feel more organized? If so, Kathi is here to help you.
Kathi’s expert advice has been featured in national media outlets including Oprah Magazine, Martha Stewart Living and Better Homes and Gardens, Entrepreneur Magazine, and more.
As the author of 2 books, Kathi has also developed several online courses to help clients get better organized and energized in all areas of their home, life, and business.
