It is a common instinct to reach for a giant, flowy shirt when you’re feeling self-conscious. You think you’re hiding, but in reality, fabric that hangs straight from the bust to the hips actually makes you look wider than you are. It’s time for a breakup

• The Magic of Princess Seams: Look for shirts with a snug fit and princess seams. These are those vertical seams that follow your natural curves. They give you shape without being “clingy,” which is the ultimate win-win.
  
  
• Find a Waist (Even if You Have to Fake It): Go for tops that are tailored at the midsection. By drawing the eye toward the waist, you create the illusion of an hourglass and bring some much-needed balance to your lower half.

A good suit coat is like armor, but the wrong length can throw your whole vibe off. The secret is all in the math of where the jacket ends.

• Length Matters: Make sure your coats hit below the hips. If a jacket cuts off right at the hip bone, it creates a wide horizontal line exactly where you don’t want it. A longer hem creates a tall, lean line that skims right over the hips.

• The Button Trick: Aim for three to four buttons. This helps streamline the bust area and keeps everything looking balanced and proportional.

If you’re still wearing pants that taper down to a narrow ankle, listen up. Narrow ankles on a full figure can create an “upside-down V” shape, which actually makes your hips look broader.

• Let the Fabric Fall: Choose wide-leg slacks that fall straight away from the hip. This creates a vertical column of color that elongates your legs and makes your torso look longer. Plus, they are way more comfortable.

At the end of the day, style is just a game of proportions. By swapping those baggy tees for tailored seams and choosing longer hemlines, you’re not changing who you are—you’re just showing yourself off better. Give Kathi’s tips a try this week and see how much better you feel when the mirror finally reflects the real you.